It begins in the
family and continues, over time, other "socializing agencies" - the
neighborhood group, school, TV, the Internet, and so on ...~
Ah, family ...
is the place where everything happens. Father and mother, a father or a mother,
two fathers or two mothers, educators in the asylum, whatever, are crucial in
the transmission of patterns of thought and behavior. Even without aware of it.
Even when they judge not. Even when they want to teach A and, after all, teach
B.
The child sees,
hears, feels and does the same. Those adults are his life, his model, his
example. They are his Instruction Manual.
And what does he
see? The words they use. The gestures
they make. Their actions.
How parents love
each other, how to get angry, how to behave when separated. How to love their children, how to get angry with them, how they treat them in a separation. How they view working life. How
they view school life. How they behave in public space. In traffic, in rows of
shops, before the figures of authority, in relation to an insult or aggression,
face to foreigners, given the weaker...How to behave in the political space.
That is why it
is so challenging to observe a family. There is there a common model, speak the
same way, smiling likewise, have similar body positions, moving the same way.
Impressive.
Thus, children
will repeat throughout life, what they have learned here. The chosen wife or
husband will have hints of their father or their mother. And teach their
children what they heard, saw and felt.
Sometimes in
adolescence and adulthood, they may try to separate themselves from these
models. But in a crisis, there will out what was impregnated in their skin.
Finale. We're
screwed!
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